Mutual Masturbation for Sexual Stimulation

Sometimes we forget that sexual self stimulation isn’t just for our own enjoyment. You and your partner can enjoy this part of your lives together even more than you can alone! Take turns showing each other your favorite ways to “have sex”.

Alternatively, you can do it together, and let the excitement of seeing each other so excited and pleasured help you both along. Maybe play a game, like, see which of you can last longer without having an orgasm! Remember, this is a part of your life you and your partner can enjoy together! So don’t be ashamed of it, enjoy it!

Improve Sex with Sexual Fantasies

Do you want to make your already naughty escapades even more so? How about having sex outdoors? Just don’t get caught! Or, what about taking turns being a “sex prisoner”, and fulfilling the desires of your partner? When your friends have you over for dinner, see if you can get away with having a quickie in the bathroom!

Acting out sexual fantasies is one way to spice up your relationship and keep it exciting. The thrill of getting caught will make it even better! Enjoy being “punished”? Try lightly spanking each other to reward very naughty behavior. Or, blindfold your partner, and make them perform any sexual favor you can think of. Then, you take the blindfold and do the same.

Homemade Sex Movie

One sexy, creative thing you and your partner can do together is to use your personal video camera to make a homemade porn movie. Write a script together, select sexy lingerie, buy sextoys and set the camera on the dresser or a bookshelf to film it. Afterwards, you can both watch it together.

Or, if you are very daring, ask a very close friend to shoot your sex video for you! However, you should probably make sure your partner is okay with this idea long before you ask your friend to do it! You could even edit the movie on your computer at home and make a dvd if you so desire. This is the type of dvd that can be re-introduce time and again in your love-making sessions to keep the sexual excitement in your relationship.

Sexually Explicit Rap Videos

Nowadays, girls are being exposed to sex and erotic dancewear much earlier in the pop music they listen to and the videos they watch on MTV and BET. There's a lot of eroticism in rap videos and if you are the mother of a young girl you need to decide if your girl is old enough to watch some of these rap music videos uncensored.

Mothers need to talk to their girls about the importance of staying virgins until they are fully matured sexually and emotionally. Introduce good books about sex to your teenage girls as additional educational tools about sex and their growing, changing bodies. Let them know that they can ask questions about anything they do not understand or want more information on.

It is important that you allow your girls to learn about sex in a healthy and non-threatening environment. Whatever you do try not to let your girls learn about sex from their peers or from over-exposure to the sexually explicit hip hop videos on BET or MTV.

Famous Star Jennifer Hudson Tragedy

Dreamgirl, Jennifer Hudson was destined for stardom and as with all personal climbs jealously can sometimes rare its ugly head to try to demoralize the climber. Tragedy can also serve to remind us how fragile life is and keep us grounded as we make the rise out of humble, impoverished circumstances to awesome new heights.

Not knowing Jennifer personally, we can only surmise about her emotional state and what her heart monitor really reads for her lovers. It has been reported on CNN that the shooting of her brother, mother and later her nephew has been over some domestic violence situation.

Having been made aware of an ex-boyfriend, James Payton that she's known since 1999 to only very recently who was her dead brother's best friend, it begs the question: was this a crime of passion or a lover spurn? Perhaps, this has nothing to do with Jennifer at all and maybe a matter of street cred or another incidence of youth gang violence at its worse.

For Jennifer, it's a deadly blow to her emotionally at a time when she has worked very hard and did all the right things to put her own life on track. She elevated herself from working at Burger King to landing a job on Disney Wonder cruise, Calliope in Hercules, a Muse-ical Comedy that she kept for six months as a personal test to her readiness for American Idol.

Since her April 2004 bottom three appearance on American Idol with LaToya London and Fantasia Barrino that set off a media firestorm and Hudson being sent home; she felt that she was robbed and perhaps it was meant to be because she felt that she was the most talented of the three finalists. This was a dreamgirl's passion; her recent weight loss and svelte body is testament to her commitment to look sexy and have the opportunity to model gorgeous Valentino dresses.

Jennifer Hudson can only seek counseling to deal with this latest hand that she's been dealt and seek to heal these latest deep wounds. Life has given you a handful of lemons so to Jennifer - get out your pitcher and make as much lemonade as you can and dry up your tears.

Video Girls Sex Life - Passion vs. Condom Sense

A lot of interaction between the sexes occur in the nightclub and very often you may end up in an uncontrolled, passionately intimate situation. When alcohol, sexually suggestive music, dancing and sexy clubwear is combined, couples can be thrust into quite sexually explosive situations.

Don't listen to your man complaining about using a condom. Fight back with some if not all of these living-saving tips and suggestions. Imagine you're in the heat of passion - clothes are being shed the minute the open is opened all the way to the bedroom and he pleas that you should allow him to make love to you without a condom, just this one time.

Make sure that the condom is on his penis for the foreplay ritual. If he argues that condoms are unnatural and uncomfortable, tell him that there are brands that will fit every size and length penis. Explain that some brands can even increase his threshold of pleasure because of their designs and you need to have worry-free sex so a condom is mandatory.

Don't let him use the argument that he cannot orgasm while wearing a condom. Explain to him that you can perform manual or oral sex while you cover him with one of the super-sensitive brands like Trojan Thintensity. This way you can massage him until he reaches a climax so he can get comfortable and reach an orgasm.

For the 1-6% of the population that are allergic to latex, there is the polyurethane female condoms available that can prevent STDs and pregnancy. Always carry a variety of styles and brands of condoms in your purse and keep a handy stash with your sextoys in your dresser drawer at your house so that they are within easy reach.

Prepare yourself when you pickup your toiletries at the local drugstore or you can buy sexy lingerie or condoms online at and have them delivered discreetly to your home.

Men, Sex and Intimacy

When it comes to sex, women always want to know what men think and how they would be romanced. Some men say that they have intense days and they want their lady to do something that relieves stress and set the tone for their leisure - massages, sexy lingerie, intimate baths with good music, humor or aromatherapy are all high on the list.

In these day of bailout, mortgage meltdowns, foreclosures and the world economy on the brink of disaster, we have to look to ourselves to find ways to cope and relax. Good sex, good conversation, bubble baths, walks to the mountains or the countryside and having candle-light home-cooked meals will prove to be great de-stressors.

Mini-getaways to sunny Florida or California to soak up some sun and rest and relaxation are key elements to dealing with these difficult times. Playful fun around your bedroom in sexy, erotic lingerie with your video camera can be healthy, imaginative and creative.

Make every Friday your evening getaway. Bring your favorite lady red roses, a bottle of wine and succumb and pamper yourselves with massages, leather lingerie and let your imagination run wild. This is guaranteed to keep you sane, well grounded, stress-free and rejuvenated.

What an excellent way to save money on high gas prices, expensive dinners, the depressive talks about the economic crisis, depleting investment portfolios and evaporating 401Ks. At least sex and intimacy allow us to keep our emotional health and don't forget to use music and humor to remain resilient in these trouble times.