Mutual Masturbation for Sexual Stimulation

Sometimes we forget that sexual self stimulation isn’t just for our own enjoyment. You and your partner can enjoy this part of your lives together even more than you can alone! Take turns showing each other your favorite ways to “have sex”.

Alternatively, you can do it together, and let the excitement of seeing each other so excited and pleasured help you both along. Maybe play a game, like, see which of you can last longer without having an orgasm! Remember, this is a part of your life you and your partner can enjoy together! So don’t be ashamed of it, enjoy it!

Improve Sex with Sexual Fantasies

Do you want to make your already naughty escapades even more so? How about having sex outdoors? Just don’t get caught! Or, what about taking turns being a “sex prisoner”, and fulfilling the desires of your partner? When your friends have you over for dinner, see if you can get away with having a quickie in the bathroom!

Acting out sexual fantasies is one way to spice up your relationship and keep it exciting. The thrill of getting caught will make it even better! Enjoy being “punished”? Try lightly spanking each other to reward very naughty behavior. Or, blindfold your partner, and make them perform any sexual favor you can think of. Then, you take the blindfold and do the same.

Homemade Sex Movie

One sexy, creative thing you and your partner can do together is to use your personal video camera to make a homemade porn movie. Write a script together, select sexy lingerie, buy sextoys and set the camera on the dresser or a bookshelf to film it. Afterwards, you can both watch it together.

Or, if you are very daring, ask a very close friend to shoot your sex video for you! However, you should probably make sure your partner is okay with this idea long before you ask your friend to do it! You could even edit the movie on your computer at home and make a dvd if you so desire. This is the type of dvd that can be re-introduce time and again in your love-making sessions to keep the sexual excitement in your relationship.

Sexually Explicit Rap Videos

Nowadays, girls are being exposed to sex and erotic dancewear much earlier in the pop music they listen to and the videos they watch on MTV and BET. There's a lot of eroticism in rap videos and if you are the mother of a young girl you need to decide if your girl is old enough to watch some of these rap music videos uncensored.

Mothers need to talk to their girls about the importance of staying virgins until they are fully matured sexually and emotionally. Introduce good books about sex to your teenage girls as additional educational tools about sex and their growing, changing bodies. Let them know that they can ask questions about anything they do not understand or want more information on.

It is important that you allow your girls to learn about sex in a healthy and non-threatening environment. Whatever you do try not to let your girls learn about sex from their peers or from over-exposure to the sexually explicit hip hop videos on BET or MTV.

Famous Star Jennifer Hudson Tragedy

Dreamgirl, Jennifer Hudson was destined for stardom and as with all personal climbs jealously can sometimes rare its ugly head to try to demoralize the climber. Tragedy can also serve to remind us how fragile life is and keep us grounded as we make the rise out of humble, impoverished circumstances to awesome new heights.

Not knowing Jennifer personally, we can only surmise about her emotional state and what her heart monitor really reads for her lovers. It has been reported on CNN that the shooting of her brother, mother and later her nephew has been over some domestic violence situation.

Having been made aware of an ex-boyfriend, James Payton that she's known since 1999 to only very recently who was her dead brother's best friend, it begs the question: was this a crime of passion or a lover spurn? Perhaps, this has nothing to do with Jennifer at all and maybe a matter of street cred or another incidence of youth gang violence at its worse.

For Jennifer, it's a deadly blow to her emotionally at a time when she has worked very hard and did all the right things to put her own life on track. She elevated herself from working at Burger King to landing a job on Disney Wonder cruise, Calliope in Hercules, a Muse-ical Comedy that she kept for six months as a personal test to her readiness for American Idol.

Since her April 2004 bottom three appearance on American Idol with LaToya London and Fantasia Barrino that set off a media firestorm and Hudson being sent home; she felt that she was robbed and perhaps it was meant to be because she felt that she was the most talented of the three finalists. This was a dreamgirl's passion; her recent weight loss and svelte body is testament to her commitment to look sexy and have the opportunity to model gorgeous Valentino dresses.

Jennifer Hudson can only seek counseling to deal with this latest hand that she's been dealt and seek to heal these latest deep wounds. Life has given you a handful of lemons so to Jennifer - get out your pitcher and make as much lemonade as you can and dry up your tears.